The Lilac Party began in the early 1980s as a simple way to welcome spring, bringing together people who love Willowwood Arboretum on a May afternoon when the lilacs are at their peak. At that time, Willowwood was known for its distinguished collection of French lilacs that bloom later in the season, a uniquely beautiful sight. Founder Mary Bartow, with the help of Nancy Strong, envisioned an intimate afternoon to enjoy light hors d’oeuvres, stroll the garden paths, and listen to spirited a cappella from the University Glee Club (The Ten).
Over the years the Lilac Party has grown from a simple tea party into a beloved annual fundraiser. While the format expanded moving beyond teacups to wine, tents, and a festive atmosphere, the core mission remained the same: to celebrate Willowwood, support its care, and share its beauty and importance with the community.
Mary’s passion and generosity shaped the event’s early purpose and created the friendly, welcoming tone that still defines the Lilac Party today. Elements such as the enduring talents of The Ten and a silent auction of horticultural rarities became central features, helping draw new audiences and deepen community engagement.
Though the event paused briefly during the COVID years, it has endured for more than two decades, growing in scale while preserving its original spirit: welcoming spring, bringing people together, and sustaining Willowwood for future generations. We hope you’ll join us to celebrate the season and the garden.
Lilac Parties of the Past
